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Lesson
10
EFFECTIVE
COUNSELOR
As
described below, this lecture
will focus on personal
characteristics, daily stresses, and
psychological
health
of an effective counselor.
·
Personal
characteristics
Values
Cultural
biases
·
Daily
world of a practitioner
·
Psychological
Health Model
Personal
Characteristics Model
Influence
of Counselor's Values on Client's
Values
Values
are principles that guide
our life. Counselors' values
influence how they work with
clients and bring
their
value conflicts to counseling. Counselors
must understand their own
values and the values of
others.
In
fact, no one set of values
is superior to others. Every person
has a set of beliefs that
determines the
decisions
they make, their ability to
appreciate the things around them, their
consciences, and
their
perceptions
of others. Values serve as reference
points for individuals. They
provide a basis for
determining
which
course of action an individual should
take, e.g., respecting
elders. Counselor's conflict
with certain
values
can also cause relationship
difficulties with the clients.
For religious counselors, issues
of
contraception,
abortion, divorce and intentional
single parenting create value
conflicts.
Using
the Schwartz Universal Values Questionnaire (Schwartz,
1992), Kelly (1995) surveyed
a national
sample
of nearly 500 American counselors.
The prevalence of values as
reported by the counselors were
as
under:
benevolence, 5.27; self-direction, 5.08;
universalism, 4.89; achievement,
4.63; hedonism, 4.14;
security,
4.07; stimulation, 3.59; tradition,
3.17; power, 2.09 .
Some
counselors recommend neutrality in
counselor so that clients
move from an external to an
internal
locus
of control
Williamson
(1958) called for an abandonment of
neutral position by suggesting that this
could easily lead
the
client to believe that the
counselor can accept
unlawful behavior. Some maintain
that the counselor
should
remain neutral while counseling
and communicate no value
orientation to the client. In such
circumstances,
a counselor or therapist would strive to
appear nonmoralizing, ethically neutral,
and focused
on
the client's values. If topics
such as pro-choice versus pro-life,
religion, euthanasia, or gay,
lesbian, and
bisexual
orientation were to arise
during the counseling or psychotherapy
process, the counselor or
therapist
would
not take a position. Such a
situation could lead to the client's
feeling that the counselor
supported
behavior
that is completely unacceptable by any
social, moral, or legal standards.
The reason for
such
neutrality
is the belief that it is important
for clients to move from an
external to an internal locus of
control
during
the counseling or psychotherapy process.
Values introduced by the counselor or therapist
would be
detrimental
to such an objective.
Patterson
(1958) points out that the
counselor's values definitely influence
those of the client, affect ethics
of
the counseling relationships, the goals
of counseling, and the methods
employed in counseling.
Patterson
cites
evidence for the assertion that, no
matter how passive and
valueless the counselor appears, the
client's
value
system is influenced and gradually
becomes more similar to the
counselor's value system.
However,
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Patterson
suggests, counselors are not
justified in consciously and
directly imposing their values on
their
clients.
In
an experiment using the Study
of Values test,
Cook (1966) found that in 3
value-similarity groups, medium
similarity
group improved more than
those in either high similarity or low
similarity groups. He found
that
differences
in the counselors' and clients'
value systems affected
counseling outcome. He found
that when
clients
were grouped by how similar
their values were to the
values of the counselor, clients
who were in a
medium
similarity group improved more
than those in either high similarity or
low similarity groups.
These
findings
suggest that when the counselor or
client perceives his world
as being too similar to or
too
different
from that of the other, it
has an adverse effect upon
their interactions.
Belkin
(1984) suggests that the primary
value to which counselors must commit
themselves is freedom.
Freedom
is an ideal that propels the
individual to certain types of
actions. Freedom allows the
individual to
determine
what direction in which to move. It
allows the individual to be creative, to
make choices and be
responsible
for them. Freedom also
commits the client to assuming
responsibility for his action and
its
consequences.
He suggests that the primary value to
which counselors must commit themselves
is freedom.
Research
indicates that social class
bias influenced psychiatric residents'
diagnosis of patients (Lee,
1968;
Fitzgibbons
& Shearn, 1972). The
professional background of the therapist
had an important influence on
whether
the therapist judged a patient schizophrenic or
not (Fitzgibbons & Shearn,
1972).
Cultural
Bias in Theory and
Practice
It
is widely acknowledged that current
theories are derivatives of Western
culture and are not
universally
applicable
to cross-cultural counseling situations
(Corey, 2001; Schmidt,
2002).
Examples
of cultural differences are abundant
(Argyle, 1985). This is
manifested in different behaviors
of
people,
for example, calling others by
first name, direct or indirect
gaze, etc. Christopher (1996)
addresses
diversity
issues through the concept of moral
visions. Argyle studied 22
social relationships in 4
cultures:
Britain,
Italy, Hong Kong, and
Japan. Addressing the other
person by first name was
highly endorsed in
only
three Japanese relationships, a
much lower figure than in the
other three cultures.
Looking the other
person
in the eye during conversation was
highly endorsed in virtually
all British and Italian
relationships,
but
in under half of Japanese and
Hong Kong relationships. Christopher
points out those different
cultures
provide
different moral visions. The
ideal person in traditional Confucian
China was first and
foremost
characterized
by absolute loyalty and being a
dutiful son or daughter. In contrast, in
the American culture,
attributes
such as authenticity and autonomy
are reinforced.
Most
Western counseling or psychotherapy
theories are moral visions
that presuppose the importance of
individualism.
For example, behaviorist, cognitive-behavioral,
and reality theories emphasize
utilitarian
individualism.
They stress rationality, control
over emotions, enhanced
human liberty, the importance of
achieving
self-defined goals, and opposition to
irrational authority. Humanistic
theories, such as
person-
centered
and Gestalt theories, promote the
importance of turning inward, of making contact
with inner
experiencing,
and of identifying and
expressing feelings. Such
emphases may not be congruent
with the
moral
visions of clients from
other cultures. Eye contact
by young people is a sign of disrespect
among
some
Native American Groups (Ivey,
1994).
Current
theories are derivatives of
Western culture and are not
universally applicable; they
emphasize
autonomy;
and turning inward. Western
values include emphasis on youth,
assertiveness, independence
and
competition,
whereas the corresponding Eastern values
emphasize maturity, compliance,
interdependence
and
cooperation.
Awareness
of cultural differences and the ability
to build bridges across them
are important
counseling
skills.
Income, educational attainment and
occupational status are currently three
of the main measures of
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social
class; you bring your
skills at understanding people from
different social classes and
of forming
counseling
relationships with them. One skill
may be handling resistances
and messages resulting
from
clients'
social class
insecurities.
Usher
(1989) provided some helpful
guidelines for assessing the cultural
bias inherent in theories
of
counseling
and psychotherapy:
·
Assumptions
about Normal Behavior
·
Person-centered
and REBT's emphasis on Individualism and
independence:
o
Pedersen
(1987) argued that "what is
considered normal behavior
will change according
to
the
situation, the cultural background of a person or
persons being judged, and the
time
during
which a behavior is being displayed or
observed". A number of theories
(e.g.,
person-centered
and rational-emotive behavior theory)
emphasize the welfare
and
centrality
of the individual and deemphasize the
importance of obligation and duty
to
family,
organizations, and
society.
·
Dependence
on Abstract Words:
o
Would
all clients understand the
concepts of self-actualization or
fictional finalism?
Many
clients
are not receptive to
abstractions or
conceptualizations.
·
Neglect
of Client Support Systems:
o
In
some cultures, talking with
family members or friends may be
more acceptable than
talking
with a trainee professional
who is usually a total
stranger.
·
Focus
on Changing the
Individual:
o
Linear
thinking emphasizes cause-and-effect
relationships, whereas the nonlinear
or
circular
thinking characteristic of some
cultures does not separate
cause and effect
counselors
and therapists who use
Western theory as the sole
basis for practice assume
that
their
role is to make the client
more congruent with the system.
Such a role can be
quite
problematic
when Western culture-bound paradigms,
such as the DSM, are used to
assess
the
behavior of clients who are
culturally different. Their current
problems cannot be fully
understood
without consideration of their
history.
The
Daily World of the
Practitioner
·
A
complex relationship exists between
elements of the therapeutic process and
the demands experienced
by
the counselor on a daily basis (Moursund
& Kenny, 2002).
·
The
demands inherent in just about
any work environment are
tremendous. Concerns about having
enough
clients, students, supervisees,
research funds, publications, involvements in
professional and
community
organizations, collected fees,
malpractice, and liability
insurance are just a few
examples of
the
kinds of demands that converge on
counselors and therapists,
e.g., school, college,
university, mental
health
center, hospital, private practice,
rehabilitation clinic, etc.)
·
Freudenberger
(1983) notes that the very
nature of the therapeutic personality often
makes it difficult to
say
no and many people engaged in
counseling and psychotherapy
find themselves overextended,
tired,
and
overly involved with
work.
·
Common
Individual Stressors
Striving
for perfection
Excessive
need for approval
Self-doubt
Physical
and emotional
exhaustion
Assuming
too much responsibility for
clients
Ruminating
about cases
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·
Stresses
association with working in
organizations
Excessive
demands of agencies
Constant
paperwork
Dehumanization
and erosion of ideals
Stress
and Burnout
·
How
stress paves the way to
burnout
Stress
at work tends to impact your
personal life
Working
intensely with people opens
you up to your own wounds --
it reactivates earlier conflicts
and
pain
Constant
stress that is not managed
results in physical and
psychological exhaustion
·
Burnout
There
are internal and external
causes of burnout.
Chronic
burnout can lead to becoming
impaired.
You
are challenged with
recognizing signs of burnout before
you become an impaired
practitioner.
Warning
Signs for Burnout
Kaslow
(1986) notes that when
two or more of these indicators
appear periodically and with
gradually
increasing
frequency, intensity, and duration, a
counselor or therapist has entered a
warning zone and
should
seek personal counseling and
psychotherapy, take a vacation, cut
back on obligations, and so
on,
until
he or she re-experiences perspective
and balance:
·
Not
wanting to go to work
·
Constantly
complaining about disliking one's
practice or feeling overwhelmed by it
·
Viewing
life as dull, heavy, and
tedious
·
Experiencing
an increasing number of negative
counter-transference reactions to
patients or students
·
Being
extremely irritable, withdrawn,
depressed, or intolerant at
home
·
Suffering
frequent illnesses of inexplicable
origin
·
Wanting
to run away from it all or
having periodic suicidal
ideation
Psychological
Health Model
·
The
capacity to give and receive
love as a criterion for
psychological health has been
endorsed by
many
theorists like Adler (1978),
Allport (1961), Erikson
(1968), Freud (1930), Fromm
(1955),
Maslow
(1970), and Sullivan
(1953).
·
Jahoda
(1958): proposed 6 criteria for
mental health: a positive attitude
toward self,
continual
movement
toward self-actualization, purpose in
life, ability to function
independently, an accurate
perception
of reality, and mastery of the
environment.
·
Basic
self-esteem has been viewed
as essential by Allport (1961),
Erikson (1968), Jung
(1954),
Maslow
(1970), Rogers (1961), and
Sullivan (1953).
·
Personal
autonomy and competence are
emphasized by Fromm (1955),
Horney (1950), Maslow
(1970),
and Rogers (1961).
Kinnier's
Criteria for Psychological
Health
Following
a survey of psychological literature,
Kinnier (1997) proposed 9 criteria
for psychological health.
To
determine what criteria for psychological
health had been identified by
theoreticians and
researchers,
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Kinnier
(1997) proposed that these
criteria are believed to apply to counselors
and therapists as well as
to
their
clients.
·
Self-acceptance
o
Self-esteem
seems to be a prerequisite for
developing other important
components
of psychological health. Psychologically
healthy individuals
experience
strong feelings of self-acceptance and
self-love. Individuals who
love
and
respect themselves have the
capacity to love and respect
others and possess
the
foundation for becoming
self-actualized.
·
Self-knowledge
(introspective)
Psychologically
healthy individuals know themselves
well and stay aware of
their feelings,
o
motivations,
and needs. They are
introspective and committed to understanding
themselves.
·
Self-confidence
and self-control
They
have appropriate skills for
assertive behavior, but do
not unnecessarily impose
their
o
views
or will on others. Such
individuals have an internal
locus of control, believe
that they
can
exert reasonable control over
their lives, and feel
capable of achieving their
goals.
·
A
clear perception of reality
(enough societal
consensus)
Perceptions
of the people, events, and
objects around us are always
subjective, but there
o
are
usually enough societal consensuses
about the nature of reality to provide
beneficial
comparisons
with our own point of
view. Psychologically healthy individuals
have a clear
perception
of reality and an o ptimistic view of
life.
·
Courage
and Resilience.
Danger
and risk surround the daily lives
and decision-making opportunities of
most
o
individuals;
therefore, failures, crises, and
setbacks are inevitable. Psychologically
healthy
individuals
are aware of this reality,
adapt well to challenges and
changed circumstances,
and
can bounce back from
disappointments.
·
Balance
and moderation
Psychologically
healthy individuals work and play,
laugh and cry, enjoy planned
and
o
spontaneous
time with family and friends,
and are not afraid to be
both illogical and
intuitive.
They are rarely extremists
or fanatics, and usually they do
not do anything in
excess.
·
Love
of others: Capacity to give
and receive love (Adler,
1978; Fromm,
1955)
A
number of theoretical orientations believe that the
ability to give and receive
love, the
o
desire
to develop close ties to another person
or persons, and the need to belong
to
another
person, family, or group are
fundamental to mental health.
·
Love
of life
People
who are active, curious,
spontaneous, venturesome, and
relaxed have traits
that
o
promote
their capacity to partake of
and enjoy life.
·
Purpose
in life
Individuals
vary in their choice of the most
meaningful aspects of life. Work,
love, family,
o
intellectual
or physical accomplishment, or
spirituality may become the primary
focus.
The
Multidimensional Health and Wellness
Model
·
Systemic
models of wellness suggest
that all the identified
dimensions of wellness interact and
that they
must
all be evaluated (Skovholt,
2001), as components of a lifelong
paradigm to promote health
and
well-ness.
Health has been defined as
the absence of illness; wellness
goes far beyond the absence
of
illness
and incorporates a zest and
enthusiasm for life that
results when the dimensions of wellness
have
been
addressed, developed, and integrated. A
person can be "well" even
when undergoing treatment for
physical
illness because the physical dimension is
just one dimension of the wellness model.
Little
emphasis
has been placed on the importance of
counselors or therapists helping
themselves, and even
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less
attention is given to counselors' or
therapists' wellness
behaviors
·
In
1984, Hettler proposed six
dimensions of wellness--intellectual, emotional,
physical, social,
occupational,
and spiritual
·
Later
revision (Myers et al., 2000) indicated the
following Wheel of Wellness as a
basis for working
holistically
with clients:
·
Spirituality
·
Self-direction
·
Work
and leisure
·
Friendship
·
Love
Activity
1:
Assessing Your Personal
Characteristics
·
Sensitivity
·
Personal
presence
·
Compassion
& empathy
·
Flexibility
& willingness to receive
feedback
·
Integrity
·
Modeling
·
Insight
Use
this list as a catalyst for
honest self reflection.
Reflect on how well you
know yourself, and assess
your
current
level of interpersonal functioning.
Activity
2
·
Conduct
an interview with a mental health
professional. Before the interview develop a
list of questions
that
you are interested in
exploring. Write up the salient
points and conclusions of
your interview in
your
Counseling
Journal.
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