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Introduction
to Mass Communication MCM
101
VU
LESSON
11
LANGUAGE
IN COMMUNICATION
Previously we
have discussed that non
verbal communication outsmarts verbal communication by
a
big
margin but fact remains
that the non verbal communication matters
the most in real time when
you
communicate,
or you are communicated,
through the human senses and
body gestures and
signs.
In
time and space mostly it is the language
comprising words which communicates to
others. For instance
most
historic records are available in the
form of books written by scores of
historians. The religious
teachings
and the scientific and philosophical
works are also going down to
generations through
words.
It
is the words, spoken or written, by
prophets and other scholars on
which scholars of the day
try to set
explanations
and seek guidance.
It
is, however, a mystery to say whether the
languages over 4,000 in
recognized form, are man
made or
divine.
Who invented them and at what
stage their grammar rules
and nouns were set up,
still remains
shrouded
in obscurity.
Despite
the fact that languages have
been one of the strongest
tools of communication, they also
have
innate
flaws which hamper communication.
Here below we will see how
languages behave in
communication.
Polarization
For
almost every language it is a common
practice to describe things in extreme
position. At times
people
are made to take an extreme
position while the fact
remains that they want to stay
some where in
between.
For
instance a person is said to be
good or bad. You ask
about a friend and reply
may be; he is good, or he
is
bad. The fact is that the
person under question is bad in some
respect and good in some
others. There
may
be a person who is said to be
bad because he has committed a
serious crime but this may
be a fact
about
him that he always speaks
the truth which is good.
At
the time of elections, you are
asked to say yes or no.
Yes means you fully
endorse policies of a
person,
and
no will mean you fully
reject the same for another.
Fact is you do like some
policies of a person you
are
made
to say no about and there
may be some fault in the
policies of a person (leader)
you are made to
say
yes.
You
watch a movie and you
observe it as good or bad
and so you tell others
about it. The fact is you
like
the
music and acting but
not the direction and the
script or story.
The
use of polarized feeling does not
allow you to communicate the very
truth about something you
have a
different
feelings. The worst occurs when having
said good, you cover an
extra distance to justify it if
ever
there
is a debate on the matter, although your
first observation has been polarized
due to in-built
inadequacy
of language.
Labeling
A
language help you label
people of different categories and
thereafter always keep an
impression
about
them as such. For instance
Scots are labeled as stingy
people. Every Scot is not
but whenever you
are
going
to have a business with a
Scot, a friend may tell
you be careful while dealing
with a Scot.
People
of some tribe and clan
are labeled as quarrelsome. There
may be some who are very
peaceful and
reasonable
but if you are in communication
with them under the impression of label,
no sooner a point of
dispute
arises that you are
prompted to observe that
nothing is wrong with you;
you belong to a tribe
which
is
well known for such
behavior.
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Introduction
to Mass Communication MCM
101
VU
It
is common in the third world countries to
see the United Nation with
suspicion and regard it as
an
extension
of the developed world only to twist arms
of poor nation when needed. This
may be far from
truth
in a given case but such labeling
would go along the communication process
and stand firm in
giving
certain
obsessed meanings on part of the
sender if he belongs to other
side of the divide.
Static
meanings
Sometimes
some words are attached
with a person and he/she
continues to be known by the
meanings
of those words. For instance
there is your college fellow
whom you regard as nuts
who is difficult
to
handle. Now the fellow has
gone to US and married and
has turned very reasonable as
one can keep
changing
overtime. But whenever friends meet
and talk about that fellow
even years after, they will
refer
him
as nuts.
You
visit a foreign land only
once in your life time and
cheated by some natives. You
will continue to call
people
of that land as cheats whenever
there will be any mention of
that country though the event
took
place
decades ago. So harsh are
the feelings and the words to give
such meanings where as the
fact is that
people,
who might have cheated,
are now changed.
At
times some ruling tribes
are described with static
meanings in the book of history
and their generations
are
continued to be known with
those characteristics once
attached to their forefathers.
All
this is because language does
not offer any scientific
approach to measures matters as done in
physics or
chemistry
or other natural sciences.
Indiscrimination
Another
problem in the usage of languages is
that it provides you common nouns
and suggests that
people
in this area are also
similar in behavior. For
instance, people from the police
department, customs
department,
are seen with preconceived
meaning. You use the word
police and immediately particular
meanings
would be drawn in your mind. If a
group of students resort to
some hooliganism, people would
quickly
remark it as a common thing about
students. Say she is a model
and immediately people would
assume
a particular meaning about her. So on
and so forth. This indiscrimination
among individuals, once
they
are grouped in a common noun, is another
skirting area of
language.
Purpose
of debate
As
we undertake the debate on language
and communication, the purpose is not to
prove that
languages
are worthless, but only to
highlight areas where
languages fall short of meaning
and hence cause
some
problem sometimes very serious
in common communication.
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