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Lesson
41
NON-VERBAL
COMMUNICATION MODES
What is
non-verbal communication?
Definition
"nonverbal communication
involves those
nonverbal stimuli in
a
communication
setting that are generated
by both the source [speaker]
and his or her
use
of the environment and that
have potential message value
for the source or
receiver
[listener]. Basically it is sending
and receiving messages in a
variety of ways
without
the use of verbal codes
(words). It is both intentional
and unintentional.
Most
speakers
/ listeners are not
conscious of this. It includes --
but is not limited
to:
touch
o
glance
o
eye
contact (gaze)
o
volume
o
vocal
nuance
o
proximity
o
gestures
o
facial
expression ? pause
(silence)
o
intonation
o
dress
o
posture
o
smell
o
word
choice and syntax
o
sounds
(paralanguage)
o
Broadly
speaking, there are
two basic categories
of non-verbal
language:
nonverbal
messages produced by the
body; nonverbal messages
produced by the broad
setting
(time, space,
silence).
Why
is non-verbal communication
important?
Basically,
it is one of the key aspects
of communication (and especially
important in a
high-context
culture). It has multiple
functions:
Used
to repeat
the verbal
message (e.g. point in a
direction while
stating
o
directions.
Often
used to accent
a verbal
message. (e.g. verbal tone
indicates the actual
o
meaning
of the specific
words).
Often
complement
the verbal
message but also may
contradict. E.g.: a
nod
o
reinforces
a positive message (among
Americans); a "wink" may
contradict a
stated
positive message.
Regulate
interactions
(non-verbal cues covey when
the other person
should
o
speak
or not speak).
May
substitute
for the
verbal message (especially if it is
blocked by noise,
o
interruption,
etc) -- i.e. gestures
(finger to lips to indicate
need for quiet),
facial
expressions
(i.e. a nod instead of a
yes).
Note
the implications of the
proverb: "Actions speak
louder than words." In
essence,
this
underscores the
importance of non-verbal
communication.
Non-verbal
communication
is especially significant in
intercultural situations. Probably
non-verbal
differences
account for typical
difficulties in communicating.
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Cultural
Differences in Non-verbal
Communication
General
Appearance and
Dress
All
cultures are concerned for
how they look and
make judgments based on
looks and
dress.
Americans, for instance,
appear almost obsessed with
dress and personal
attractiveness.
Consider differing cultural
standards on what is attractive in
dress and
on
what constitutes modesty.
Note ways dress is used as a
sign of status?
Body
Movement
We
send information on attitude
toward person (facing or
leaning towards
another),
emotional
statue (tapping fingers,
jiggling coins), and desire
to control the
environment
(moving
towards or away from a
person).
More
than 700,000 possible
motions we can make -- so
impossible to categorize
them
all!
But just need to be aware
the body movement and
position is a key ingredient
in
sending
messages.
Posture
Consider
the following actions and
note cultural
differences:
Bowing
(not done, criticized, or
affected in US; shows rank
in Japan)
o
Slouching
(rude in most Northern
European areas)
o
Hands
in pocket (disrespectful in
Turkey)
o
Sitting
with legs crossed (offensive
in Ghana, Turkey)
o
Showing
soles of feet. (Offensive in
Thailand, Saudi
Arabia)
o
Even
in US, there is a gender
difference on acceptable
posture?
o
Gestures
Impossible
to catalog them all. But
need to recognize: 1) incredible
possibility and
variety
and 2) that an acceptable in
one's own culture may be
offensive in another. In
addition,
amount of gesturing varies
from culture to culture.
Some cultures are
animated;
other restrained. Restrained
cultures often feel animated
cultures lack
manners
and overall restraint.
Animated cultures often feel
restrained cultures
lack
emotion
or interest.
Even
simple things like using
hands to point and count
differ.
Pointing:
US with index finger;
Germany with little finger;
Japanese with entire hand
(in
fact
most Asians consider
pointing with index finger
to be rude)
Counting:
Thumb = 1 in Germany, 5 in Japan,
middle finger for 1 in
Indonesia.
Facial
Expressions
While
some say that facial
expressions are identical,
meaning attached to them
differs.
Majority
opinion is that these do
have similar meanings
world-wide with respect
to
smiling,
crying, or showing anger,
sorrow, or disgust. However,
the intensity varies
from
culture to culture. Note the
following:
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Many
Asian cultures suppress
facial expression as much as
possible.
o
Many
Mediterranean (Latino / Arabic)
cultures exaggerate grief or
sadness
o
while
most American men hide
grief or sorrow.
Some
see "animated" expressions as a
sign of a lack of
control.
o
Too
much smiling is viewed in as a
sign of shallowness.
o
Women
smile more than
men.
o
Eye
Contact and Gaze
In
USA, eye contact indicates:
degree of attention or interest,
influences attitude
change
or persuasion, regulates interaction,
communicates emotion, defines
power
and
status, and has a central
role in managing impressions of
others.
Western
cultures -- see direct eye
to eye contact as positive
(advise children to
o
look
a person in the eyes). But
within USA, African-Americans
use more eye
contact
when talking and less
when listening with reverse
true for Anglo
Americans.
This is a possible cause for
some sense of unease between
races
in
US. A prolonged gaze is
often seen as a sign of
sexual interest.
Arabic
cultures make prolonged
eye-contact. -- believe it shows
interest and
o
helps
them understand truthfulness of
the other person. (A person
who doesn't
reciprocate
is seen as untrustworthy)
Japan,
Africa, Latin American,
Caribbean -- avoid eye
contact to show
respect.
o
Touch
Question:
Why do we touch, where do we
touch, and what meanings do
we assign
when
someone else touches
us?
Illustration:
An African-American male goes
into a convenience store
recently
taken
over by new Korean
immigrants. He gives a $20
bill for his purchase
to
Mrs.
Cho who is cashier and
waits for his change. He is
upset when his
change
is put down on the counter
in front of him.
What
is the problem? Traditional
Korean (and many other
Asian countries)
don't
touch strangers. Especially
between members of the
opposite sex. But
the
African-American sees this as
another example of discrimination
(not
touching
him because he is
black).
Basic
answer: Touch is culturally
determined! But each culture
has a clear concept
of
what
parts of the body one
may not touch. Basic
message of touch is to affect
or
control
-- protect, support, disapprove
(i.e. hug, kiss, hit,
kick).
USA
-- handshake is common (even
for strangers), hugs, kisses
for those of
o
opposite
gender or of family (usually) on an
increasingly more intimate
basis.
Note
differences between African-Americans
and Anglos in USA. Most
African
Americans
touch on greeting but are
annoyed if touched on the
head (good
boy,
good girl overtones).
Islamic
and Hindu: typically don't
touch with the left
hand. To do so is a social
o
insult.
Left hand is for toilet
functions. Mannerly in India to
break your bread
only
with your right hand
(sometimes difficult for
non-Indians)
Islamic
cultures generally don't
approve of any touching
between genders
o
(even
hand shakes). But consider
such touching (including
hand holding, hugs)
between
same-sex to be appropriate.
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Many
Asians don't touch the
head (Head houses the
soul and a touch puts it
in
o
jeopardy).
Basic
patterns: Cultures (English,
German, Scandinavian, Chinese,
and Japanese)
with
high emotional restraint
concepts have little public
touch; those which
encourage
emotion
(Latino, Middle-East, Jewish)
accept frequent
touches.
Smell
USA
-- fear of offensive natural
smells (billion dollar
industry to mask
o
objectionable
odors with what is perceived
to be pleasant ) -- again
connected
with
"attractiveness" concept.
Many
other cultures consider
natural body odors as normal
(Arabic).
o
Asian
cultures (Filipino, Malay,
Indonesian, Thai, Indian)
stress frequent
bathing
o
--
and often criticize USA of
not bathing often
enough!
Paralanguage
vocal
characterizers (laugh, cry,
yell, moan, whine, belch,
yawn). These send
o
different
messages in different cultures
(Japan -- giggling
indicates
embarrassment;
India belch indicates
satisfaction)
vocal
qualifiers (volume, pitch,
rhythm, tempo, and tone).
Loudness indicates
o
strength
in Arabic cultures and
softness indicates weakness;
indicates
confidence
and authority to the
Germans,; indicates impoliteness to
the Thais;
indicates
loss of control to the
Japanese. (Generally, one
learns not to "shout"
in
Asia for nearly any
reason!). Gender based as
well: women tend to
speak
higher
and more softly than
men.
vocal
segregates (un-huh, shh, uh,
ooh, mmmh, humm, eh,
mah, lah).
o
Segregates
indicate formality, acceptance,
assent, uncertainty.
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