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Human
Relations MGMT611
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Lesson
06
ATTITUDE
AND BEHAVIOUR
Attitude
Attitude
influences the behaviour of the individuals.
Attitude is a usual way of
doing things. Successes
and
failures
in life depend upon the
attitude of the individuals. If attitudes
are positive, then human relations
will
be
positive. And positive human relations
are necessary for a
successful life.
a.
Attitude is a disposition to approach an
idea, event, person, or an
object.
b.
It is a tendency to act in one
way or the other toward an `attitude
object' or something (i.e.
idea, event,
person,
object, food, colour, and
furniture, virtually everything).
Behaviour
Behaviour
may be defined as
a.
The manner in which one
behaves.
b.
The
actions or reactions of a person or
animal in response to external or
internal stimuli.
c.
The
manner in which something
functions or operates.
Ethical
behaviour
Ethical
behaviour is attributed with
certain characteristics of honesty, sincerity,
fairness and equity in
interpersonal
and professional relationships.
Attitude
is like a driver or decision
maker. It decides how to act
or behave in a particular situation.
Success
and
failure in schools or in work
life depends on the attitude of an
individual. Attitude is a kind of
habit. It
is
a usual way of doing things.
Everything in an organization will get
better if the attitude of everyone
gets
better.
We reward positive attitudes
and punish negative ones.
Just like weather, everyone
likes to talk about
it
but no one seems to do much
about it.
Types
of Attitudes
Attitude
is something that lies
between emotions and thought
processing. Attitude may be
positive or
negative.
If someone has good feelings
about something e.g. towards
his/her work, or people,
then it is
positive
attitude otherwise it would be
negative.
Positive
attitude
o
The
predisposition that results in desirable
outcomes for individuals and
organizations can be
described
as positive attitude. Positive attitudes
are rewarded. It means the
individual is
encouraged
to do the same thing in
future.
Negative
attitude
o
The
tendency of a person that
results in an undesirable outcome
for individuals and
organizations
can be described as negative attitude.
Negative attitudes are punished in
order to
discourage
the same action in future.
Change
in Attitude
Reward
and punishment build up attitude.
Attitude can be changed, if we
differentiate negative
attitude
from
positive attitude. Positive attitude can
bring positive change in
life.
It
is difficult to change attitudes
but with some effort, it
can be done. A positive
attitude is a pre-requisite
for
change and development. If anybody has
negative attitude towards
`change', this attitude will extend
to
anything
representing change i.e.
leaders, technology, meetings, or any
process of change.
Formation
of Attitude
Individual
attitudes develop through the interaction
of complex forces and are
learnt.
And
what is learnt can be unlearned or
changed. We develop our attitudes
from copying those people
who
are
important to us (significant others), particularly
parents and siblings.
Religious beliefs are
good
examples.
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Rewards
and punishments associated
with certain actions make
individuals acquire beliefs
and accordingly
result
in building personal
attitudes.
Demonstration
effect from friends and playmates play an
important role towards
developing attitudes.
Media
or persuasive communications also
help develop certain attitudes.
Often our attitudes
towards
politics
come from information or
persuasive communications from
media.
Why
concern for attitude
For
any change (growth or development),
positive attitude towards
change is critical. Without the
positive
attitude
towards change, development or growth is
very difficult.
Positive
attitude has the power to attract
sudden good fortune from the
world around us. We can
observe
that
when under critical circumstances, if we adopt
positive attitude and stay
calm, we can easily
overcome
the
problem, having no or less serious
consequences.
How
to change attitude
Negative
attitudes towards change
will disrupt the process of
change.
Information
alone is not sufficient to
change attitudes towards a
new idea or practice.
Don't
fertilize the rocks. First, make people
less resistant to receiving and
processing information. And
then
expect
change in their
attitudes.
Cognitive
approaches focus
on changing the way people think about an
entity or object. This is done
through
information, persuasive communication
through introducing conflict or
dissonance between
the
existing
attitude and the new
one.
Behavioral
approaches focus
reward and punishments for
certain attitudes and
behaviours. It can be
used
at
homes, schools or
organizations.
Social
approaches focus
on our tendency to copy the
beliefs and behaviours of
others. Role models
shown
on television and in the neighbourhoods are
examples. People change
their residences, shift from
old
localities/mohallas
to modern localities to learn new
values and bring change in
their attitudes.
An
individual is capable of holding
two contradictory beliefs or notions as
long the person is not
made
aware
about them. Once the person
becomes aware, cognitive
dissonance occurs. Dissonance is
the
uncomfortable
feeling when we feel that what we believe
may not be true. We can not
live with such
discomfort
and we try to modify either
our thinking or change our
behaviour.
We
can take the example of an
environmentalist who is the advocate of keeping the
environment clean,
himself
uses smoke emitting car.
When he/she is made to
realize, about his/her attitude, the
conflict or
dissonance
emerges in his mind. In the
result of this dissonance his/her
probable actions will be either
1.
Deny the evidence,
2.
Change the car,
3.
Rationalize the action that he had to
drive a large car for
safety or for some other
reasons.
In
all the cases, he tries to
reduce dissonance or discomfort, because
nobody likes to remain with
the
discomfort.
He/she will bring change in
the attitude to get rid of
dissonance. Dissonance can be a
great tool
towards
change. This conflict or dissonance
can be created by oneself or by an
organization or a group.
Steps
towards change in attitude
Attitudes
of individuals towards life,
family, ideas, political
thinking, religion or anything
can be changed.
Following
are the various steps for
bringing change in one's
attitude that bring change
in the behaviours.
1.
Identify the object towards which
change of attitude is
desired.
2.
Introduce information about
which individual
agrees.
3.
Introduce the new information
that contradicts the existing beliefs or
attitudes.
4.
Identify the ways through which
belief or practice conform to
new information.
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These
four steps towards change in
attitude can be easily understood by this
example. Suppose you want
to
bring
change in the attitude of your
son towards education. So,
first of all you have
identified that you
want
to
change the `attitude towards education',
secondly you will find
out the reasons for certain
attitude, thirdly
you
will introduce new
information or ideas that contradict
with the current information. This
introduction
of
new information will develop
dissonance which might help
changing attitude.
Steps
to turn attitude into action
Attitudes
can be turned into positive
actions by realizing certain behaviours
such as
1.
Understand the power of attitude
2.
Take control of yourself and
your life
3.
Be aware about yourself and
keep updated
4.
Identify and frame your
bad and good
attitudes
5.
Find purpose of your
behaviour and develop prudent
passion actions
6.
Be pro-active and pre-active
7.
Discover the ways to motivate yourself
(motivators)
8.
Build supportive relationships
9.
See change as an opportunity
10.
Leave a lasting
legacy
Attitude
by Charles Swindoll (American
Writer)
The
longer I live, the more I realize the
impact of attitude on life.
Attitude, to me, is more
important than
facts.
It is more important than the
past, than education, than
money, than circumstances, than
failures,
than
successes, than what other people think
or say or do. It is more
important than appearance,
giftedness,
or
skill. It will make or break
a company ... a church ... a
home. The remarkable thing
is we have a choice
every
day regarding the attitude we
will embrace for that
day. We cannot change the inevitable. The
only
thing
we can do is play on the one string we
have, and that is our
attitude ... I am convinced that
life is 10%
what
happens to me, and 90% how I
react to it. And so it is
with you ... we are in
charge of our
Attitudes.
"We
are all faced with a
series of great opportunities
brilliantly disguised as impossible
situations."
A
prudent personal attitude
towards life can identify
those opportunities and a
person can be come
successful.
References:
Dubrin,
A.J. (2005). Human Relations
for Career and Personal
Success. Upper Saddle River,
New Jersey,
07458.
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