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Conflict
Management HRM624
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Lesson
16
ASSESSING
THE CHARACTER OF THE CONFLICT
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Quotations:
"There
are two educations, one
should teach us how to make a
living and the other how to
live" John
Adams
"Nothing
is given to man on earth - struggle is
built into the nature of
life, and conflict is
possible - the hero
is the
man who lets no obstacle
prevent him from pursuing the values he
has chosen." Andrew
Bernstein
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Conflict
is either Constructive or
Destructive
·
Constructive
Conflict
·
Transforming
Competitive Conflict into Comparative
Conflict
In this
lecture we will try to
examine the four components of
Morton Deutsch's theory of constructive
and
destructive
conflict. Why Morton Deutsch
thought that cooperation is more
likely than competition
to
produce
constructive conflict? Why conflict has the
amazing capacity to become what the
disputants think
it is?
Why it's easier for a cooperative
conflict to become competitive than
vice versa? What is the
criterion
for
assessing a conflict as cooperative or competitive?
What are the strategies and
tactics for turning a
competitive
conflict into a cooperative
one?
"Grief
and disappointment give rise to anger,
anger to envy, envy to malice,
and malice to grief again,
till the
whole
circle is completed." How
can we break this cycle? We
will learn, cooperation is better
than
competition.
Perception
becomes reality in cooperation and
competition ("Deutsch's crude
axiom").
Morton
Deutsch's Theory of Constructive and
Destructive Conflict
Deutch's
ideas about what makes conflict
constructive and destructive are
well summarized in his
1973
wok,
"The Resolution of Conflict: Constructive
and Destructive Processes".
1.
Conflict is either cooperative or competitive.
2.
Cooperation tends to be constructive, and
competition tends to be
destructive.
3.
Cooperation and competition
tend to be self-fulfilling prophecies:
Perception becomes reality.
4.
Cooperation easily turns into
competition, but not vice
versa.
Premises
of Deutsch's Theory
1.
Cooperative conflict
A
conflict in which the disputants
believe that, when one disputant helps
him- or herself, the
other
disputant is
also helped.
2. Competitive
conflict
A
conflict in which the disputants
believe that, when one disputant helps
him- or herself, the
other
disputant is humble
or quite or less
powerful.
3.
Autistic hostility
A phenomenon in
which hostile feelings promote a
lack of communication, leading to
negative attributions
about the
acts, attitudes, and
motivations of the other person is
termed as autistic hostility.
Because of the
lack
of effective communication, neither disputant is able to
correct misperceptions.
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4.
Reactive Devaluation
A phenomenon
present in escalating conflict, in
which a suggestion made by
one disputant, or members of
his or
her team, is met with
suspicion by the other disputant, or
members of his or her team
may be
described
as reactive devaluation.
5.
Meta-Conflict (meta-dispute)
An interpersonal
conflict (dispute) over the
way another interpersonal conflict is being
handled.
Premises
of Deutsch's Theory
How
the conflict is characterized in the
minds of the disputants.
Since
a cooperative conflict is perceived as
promotively interdependent, the disputant perceiving a
conflict
as cooperative
will tend to see the conflict as a
joint problem to be solved
i.e. if the problem is solved
for
one
disputant, it will also tend to be
solved for the other.
Communication
in cooperation and competition
Since
the disputant in a cooperative conflict sees the
goals of the other disputant as promoting
his or her
own
interests, it appears to be in his or
her best interests to share
as much information as
possible.
Cooperation
is characterized by open, honest communication of
relevant information. In contrast, since
the
interests
of disputants in a competitive conflict
are seen to be in opposition,
competition is characterized by
efforts
on the part of the perceiving disputant to avoid open
and honest communication. In
competitive
conflict,
disputants tend to be suspicious of
one another, fearing that information
they share will be
used
against
them.
Coordination
of Effort in cooperation and
competition
Since
a disputant who sees the conflict as
cooperative believes that the other
disputant's efforts will
help
him or
her, the disputant will tend to try to
coordinate his or her efforts
with those of the other
disputants.
Efforts of
the disputants on One Another's
Behalf
Obviously,
a disputant who believes that
meeting the other disputant's
interests will meet his or
her own
interests
has good reason to help the
other disputantants: it will
help him or her as
well.
Responses
to the Suggestions of the
other disputant
The
reactions of one disputant to suggestions
by the other disputants are
controlled by the attitudes
engendered
by their perceptions in cooperative
conflict, a disputant will tend to see
the suggestions of the
other
disputants as motivated by a sincere
desire to help, since everyone's
goals are perceived to
be
complementary.
Conflict, suggestions tend to be
welcomed, approved of, or at least
taken at face value
Feelings
of the Disputants for one
another
There is a
great deal of evidence from
social psychological research
indicating that disputants in
a
cooperative
relationship tend to develop feelings of friendliness
and positive regard for
one another.
Effect of
Cooperation behavior on the disputants'
Egos
In a cooperative
conflict, cooperating with the other
disputant is a comfortable outgrowth of the
self
interest
of each disputant. The feelings of
friendliness that tend to grow out of a
cooperative relationship
further
motivate the disputants to be helpful to
one another.
Perception
of Similarity and difference
The
positive and negative regard
that cooperating and competing disputants
hold for each other
have
indication
for their perceptions about
one another. People who like
one another tend to focus
on, and even
inflate,
mutual similarities, while they tend to
ignore differences.
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Task
focus in cooperation and
competition
The
disputant who perceives a conflict as
cooperative believes that he or she
helps him or herself by
helping
the
other disputant; he or she tends to
stay focus on the task at
hand. Thus cooperation tends to
be
characterized
by task focus and
efficiency.
Productivity,
containment, and escalation of
cooperative and competitive
conflict
A cooperative
conflict tends to be characterized by
contained size and maximal
productivity. There are
several
reasons for this feature of cooperative
conflict.
Summary
Understanding the
nature of cooperative and competitive
conflict is very important. It can
help you
transform
competitive conflict into cooperative or
promotive conflict. It is your
attitude which will make
it
either of the
two types of conflict. It is very
easy for a cooperative conflict to evolve
in a competitive
conflict.
We can avoid that if we want
to.
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