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Human
Resource Development (HRM-627)
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Lesson
13
CREATE
YOUR OWN BLUEPRINT
Discovering
your sub modalities is a fun
process. You may want to do this on
your own, although you
may find
it
more fun to do with someone
else. This will help
with the accuracy, and if they're
also reading this,
you'll
have
a lot to talk about and a partner in
your commitment to personal mastery. So
very quickly now, think of
a
time
in your life when you
had a very enjoyable experience,
and do the following: Rate
your enjoyment on a
scale
from 0 100, where 0 is no enjoyment
at all and 100 is the peak
level of enjoyment you could
possibly
experience.
Let's say you came up with
80 on this emotional intensity scale.
Now, go to the Checklist of
Possible
Sub modalities (PPT Slide),
and let's discover which
elements are apt to create
more enjoyment in
your
life than others, more
pleasure feelings than pain
feelings.
Begin
to evaluate each of the questions
contained in the checklist against your
experience. So, for example,
as
you
remember this experience and
focus on the visual
sub
modalities, ask yourself,' is it a movie
or a still
frame?'
If it's a movie, notice how it feels.
Does it feel good? Now
change it to its opposite. Make it a
still
frame
and see what happens. Does
your level enjoyment drop? Does it
drop significantly? By what
percentage?
As
you made it a still frame,
did it drop from 80 to 50,
for example? Write down the
impact that this
change
has
made so you'll be able to
utilize this distinction in the
future.
Then,
return the imagery to its
initial form; that is,
make it a movie again if
that's what it was, so you feel
like
you're
back at 80 again. Then go to the
next question on your checklist
(PPT Slide). Is it in color or in
black
and
white? If it was in black
and white, notice how it
feels. Now, again, do the opposite to
it. Add color and
see
what
happens. Does it raise your
emotional intensity higher than 80? Write
down the impact this has
upon you
emotionally.
If it brings you to a 95, this
might be a valuable thing to
remember in the future. For
example,
when
thinking about a task you
usually avoid, if you add
color to your image of it,
you'll find that your
positive
emotional
intensity grows immediately. Now
drop the image back down to
black and white, and again,
notice
what
happens to your emotional
intensity and what a big difference this
makes. Remember to always
finish by
restoring
the original state before going on to the
next question. Put the color
back into it; make it
brighter
than
it was before, until you're virtually
awash in vivid color.
In
fact, brightness is an important
sub modality for most
people; brightening things intensifies
their emotion. If
you
think about the pleasurable experience
right now, and make the
image brighter and brighter,
you probably
feel
better, don't you? (Of
course, there are
exceptions. If you're savoring the memory
of a romantic moment,
and
suddenly turn all the lights on
full blast, that may
not be entirely appropriate.) What if
you were to make
the
image dim, dark, and
defocused? For most people,
that makes it almost
depressing. So make it
brighter
again;
make it brilliant!
Continue
down your list, nothing
which of these visual sub
modalities changes your
motional intensity the
most.
Then focus on the auditory
sub
modalities. As you re-create the
experience inside your head,
how does
it
sound to you? What does
raising the volume do to the level of pleasure
you feel? How does
increasing the
tempo
affect the enjoyment? By how much?
Write it down, and shift as
many other elements as you
can think
of.
If what you're imagining is the sound of someone's
voice, experiment with different
inflections and
accents,
and
notice what that does to the level of enjoyment
you experience. If you
change the quality of the
sound
from
smooth to silky to rough and gravelly, what
happens? Remember, finish by restoring
the sounds to their
original
auditory form so that all
the qualities continue to create
pleasure for you.
Finally,
focus on kinesthetic
sub
modalities. As you remember this
pleasurable experience, how
does changing
the
various kinesthetic elements intensify or
decrease your pleasure? Does
raising the temperature make
you
feel
more comfortable, or does it drive
you up the wall? Focus on
your breathing. Where are
you breathing
from?
If you change the quality of
your breaths from rapid
and shallow to long and
deep, how does this
affect
the
quality of your experience?
Notice what a difference this makes, and
write it down. What about
the texture
of
the image? Play around with
it; change it from soft
and fluffy, to wet and
slimy, to gooey and sticky.
As
you go through each of these
changes, how does your
blood feel? Write it down.
When you're done
experimenting
with the whole checklist of sub
modalities, go back and
adjust until the most
pleasurable image
re
emerges; make it real enough so
you can get your
hands around it and squeeze the
juice from it!
As
you go through these
exercises, you will quickly
see that some of these sub
modalities are much
more
powerful
for you than others.
We're all made differently
and have are own preferred
ways of representing
our
experience
to ourselves. What you've
just done was to create a
blueprint that maps out
how your brain is
wired.
Keep
it and use it; it will
come in handy some day
may be today! By knowing
which modalities trigger you,
you'll
know how to increase your
positive emotions and
decrease your negative
emotions.
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For
example, if you know that
making something big and
bright and bringing it close
can tremendously
intensify
your emotion, you can
get yourself motivated to do something by
changing its imagery to
match these
criteria.
You'll also know not to
make your problems big,
bright and close or you'll
intensify your
negative
emotions
as well! You'll know how to
instantly shake yourself out of limiting
state and into an
energizing,
empowering
one. And you can be better
equipped to continue your pathway to
personal power.
Knowing
the large part that sub
modalities play in your experience of reality is
crucial in meeting
challenges.
For
example, whether you feel confused or on
track is a matter of sub modalities. If
you think about a time
when
you felt confused, remember
whether you were representing the
experience as a picture or a movie.
Then
compare
it to a time when you felt that
you understood something. Often when
people feel confused, it's
because
they have a series of images in
their heads that are
piled up too closely together in a
chaotic jumble
because
someone as been talking too
rapidly or loudly. For other
people, they get confused if things are
taught
to
them too slowly. These individuals
need to see images in a movie
form, to see how things related to
each
other;
otherwise the process is too
disassociated. Do you see how
understanding someone's sub modalities
can
help
you to teach them much more
effectively?
The
challenge is that most of us
take our limiting patterns
and make them big, bright,
close, loud, or heavy
whichever
sub modalities we're most attuned to
and then wonder why we feel
overwhelmed! If you've
ever
pulled
yourself out of that state, it's
probably because you or
somebody else took that
image and changed
it,
redirecting
your focus. You finally
said,' oh, it's not that
big a deal.' Or you worked
on one aspect of it, and
by
doing
so; it didn't seem like
such a big project to tackle.
These are simple
strategies.
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