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Lesson
12
THE
SELF (CONTINUE..........)
Aims
Introducing
to students that how people
know the self.
Objectives
1.
Describing how individuals
reflect on individual
characteristics
Self
schemas
Complexity
of selves
Possible
selves
Self
discrepancies
2.
Understanding the social context in the
understanding of self
Social
comparisons
Self
distinctiveness
Introduction
People
in western culture may have greater
difficulty in knowing who
they are today them they
did in the
past.
That
knowing the self has become
progressively more difficult. In earlier
times, identity was fixed at
birth
by
the family's recognized place in society.
Today, people in many
western cultures have so much
freedom
and
mobility that they have to
"discover" who they are.
People may no longer know
which of many
possible
selves is "the real
me".
Ways
of achieving self-fulfillment have
changed along with ways of
defining the self. In the Late
Medieval
period,
for instance, Christians who
observed the church's strictures were guaranteed
fulfillment in heaven.
Some
psychologists believe that
people in the modern era, in
contrast, lead empty lives
that they try to
fill
with meaningless consumption of
material goods.
Modern
people have a vague idea
that they would like to
achieve a goal called
"self-actualization,"
but
they
are not certain what
self-actualization is (Baumeister, 1987).
In the "self and society"
column, we
see
that the relationship
between self and society has
become progressively worse. People in the
late
medieval
era derived both their
identity and their
fulfillment from their
recognized place in what
they
regarded
as a "great chain of being" in
which all God's creatures
had assigned places. By the
early
twentieth
century, however, people
came to believe that society
was standing in the way of
their
personal
fulfillment, so they became
hostile and critical. In the
late twentieth century,
people know that
society
does little to help them in
their voyage of self-discovery.
People have both a personal
identity
and
a "collective" or social identity.
Personal identity is independent of
other people; social
identity
consists
of being identified with
groups or categories. A social
identity is more than just a
cognitive
category.
It is also a network of social
relationships (Abrams, 1992;
Ethier & Deaux, 1994).
People in
modern
Western cultures may emphasize
the personal identity over
the social identity.
However,
in traditional cultures generally
social identity is emphasized over
personal identity.
Two
frequently used methods for
arriving at a personal identity are:
reflecting on individual
characteristics
and
using the social context.
REFLECTING
ON INDIVIDUAL CHARACTERISTICS
The
first four processes involve
primarily private knowledge.
They are ways of thinking
about a personal
identity
that can occur without reference to
other people.
Even
a hermit who has lived
alone in the woods for many
years could sit beneath a
tree in solitude and
reflect
on his or her self-schemas,
self-complexity, possible selves, and
self-discrepancies.
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SELF-SCHEMAS
A
schema is a set of beliefs
that provides an organizing
framework for understanding a
topic, an event, or a
person.
A schema for physiques, for
example, might help us to
tell the difference between being
"fat and
being
muscular.
Self-schemas,
then, are beliefs that
provide an organizing framework to
help us understand ourselves.
Self-
schemas
summarize the personality traits,
attitudes, values, interests, and
other characteristics that
we
attribute
to our-"selves. They also
include actions and interpersonal
relationships.
In
one study of self-schemas, the
investigator asked college
students how independent
they were and
whether
being independent was
important to them-- in other words,
whether they had a schema
for being
independent
(Markus, 1977). Some
students, "schematics," claimed that
they were fiercely and
consistently
independent.
Other students, "aschematics," claimed to
be independent only part of the
time and said that
the
trait did not matter to them.
The aschematics had self-schemas
for other characteristics, but
not for
being
independent.
Other
studies have shown that similar
results apply to people who
use self-schemas about being
introverted
versus
outgoing, being masculine versus
feminine, or being fat
versus thin (Catrambone & Markus,
1987;
Crane
& Markus, 1982; Fong &
Markus, 1982; Markus,
Hamill, & Sends,
1987).
SELF-COMPLEXITY
Some
people think of themselves
along only one or two dimensions.
Children may react extremely
to
failure
because they have relatively
simple self-schemas that
include only a "good me" and
a "bad me".
Anorexics
may become so preoccupied with
weighing themselves, examining
their bodies in the mirror,
and
watching what they eat,
that they think of
themselves along only the one
dimension of being fat
versus
thin.
It
may be dangerous to have too
simple a self-schema. A college
woman whose self-schema
includes the
traits
necessary for success in
athletics, courses, making
female friends, and-maintaining a
satisfactory
relationship
with a man, for instance,
may have a healthier self-schema
than another woman whose
self-
schema
centers on only body weight
and grades.
Students
who had simple self-schemas
had less positive moods
after they learned that they
failed than after
they
learned that they had
succeeded. Students who had
complex self-schemas were less
influenced by
whether
they succeeded or failed.
Self-schema complexity (having more
than one dimension to the
self-
schema)
is an effective buffer against
stress-related illness and depression
(Linville, 1987). The graph
given
below
describes the research more
clearly:
POSSIBLE
SELVES
Possible
selves are
projections of future possibilities
for the expected, desired; and feared future
self.
Students
may have a "graduate" possible self.
Anorexics may have a "thin" possible
self. Visitors to a
doctor's
office may have a "seriously ill"
possible self. Possible selves
are "the selves we could
become,
and
the selves we are afraid of
becoming" (Markus & Nurius,
1986, p. 954). The present
or "now" self
overlaps
with but is not the same as
the many possible future
selves.
Possible
selves can also affect the
way people behave. People who
desire a good possible self and
fear a
bad
possible self, for instance,
may be more motivated to take
constructive actions than are
people who fear
a
bad possible self but cannot imagine a
good alternative.
In
one study of how to change
possible selves, the researchers
instilled successful and
unsuccessful
possible
selves in college students
(Ruvolo & Markus, 1992).
After they imagined
successful or
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unsuccessful
future selves, all students
participated in two tasks.
One task required much
persistence. The
other
required intense concentration. Students
who imagined themselves
succeeding persisted longer at
the
task
that required sheer
persistence and worked more accurately at
the task that required
concentration than
did
students who imagined
themselves failing. The
researchers concluded that
our possible future selves
are
at
least as important as are
our present self-schemas,
because they can motivate
and guide us to
success.
Present
self-schemas differ in complexity. So do
future possible selves. The
two "tenses" of the self,
how-
ever,
are not always identical,
nor are their Consequences.
A person soon to enter prison
might have many
present
selves arid few future
selves. A soon-to-be-divorced person
might have just the
opposite.
SELF-DISCREPANCIES
Even
within present selves,
however, people can reflect
on their individual characteristics
from different
perspectives.
The self might be different
when seen from different
ones of these perspectives
(Higgins,
1987).
Present selves can be
divided into three types: the actual
self, the ideal self, and
the ought self.
You
can view each of these three
types of self from two perspectives: the
self as seen by the individual
and
as
seen by important other
people like a parent, a best
friend, or a spouse.
The
ideal and ought selves
derive from early
interaction between the child and his or
her caretaker
(Higgins,
1989). By giving or withholding
their affection, the parents
convey the message "this is the
type
of
person we wish you were,"
from which the children
internalize an ideal self.
When children
actively
violate
norms of acceptable behavior,
parents react with criticism
or physical punishment. Punishment
conveys
the message "this is the way
you ought to behave if you
knew right from wrong,"
from which die
children
internalize an ought
self.
Problems
arise when the individual perceives
self-discrepancies, which are
discrepancies between the
actual
self and either the ideal
self or the ought self,
whether from the individual's perspective
or from other
people's
perspective. Both children and adults
become depressed when other
people withhold
positive
regard
or when they are
disappointed in themselves.
When
their actual self is discrepant from or
fails to live up to their
own ideal self they
feel dejected. When
their
actual self is discrepant from an
important other person's
ideal for them they feel
ashamed.
The
two major types of self-discrepancy thus
elicit different types of emotional
reaction. Discrepancies
between
the actual self and the ideal self
make people feel sad;
discrepancies between the actual self
and
the
ought self make people feel
anxious and agitated (Higgins,
1989).
USING
THE SOCIAL CONTEXT
Linville's
study (1987)
To
arrive at a personal identity, then,
people
usually
find it necessary to use the social
context.
7
Two
processes (social comparison and
self-
distinctiveness)
that use other people in the
social
6
context
to decide "Who am I?"
5
4
Success
experience
SOCIAL
COMPARISON
3
Failure
experience
2
The
self concept depends importantly on
the
1
attributes
of others who are either
selected or
0
available
for comparison (Pelham,
1991;
Simple
self-
Complex
self-
schema
schema
Rosenberg,
1993).
Social
comparison occurs when
people use others as standards of
comparison against which
to
evaluate
their own opinions,
attributes, and abilities
(Festinger, 1954). For some
characteristics, no
objective
standard exists (Kruglanski & Mayseless,
1990). Am I thin enough to be
attractive and suc-
cessful?
Do I have many friends? Such
questions are difficult to People
arrive at a personal identity by
using
the social context. They
would not know how
they compared to other
people answer in absolute
terms.
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Lacking
objective standards, people draw
inferences by comparing themselves, to
others. But which
others?
Sometimes we get to choose
from many possible others
the specific people with
whom we want
to
compare ourselves. At other
times, we have no choice
(Wood, 1989). Sometimes we
assume our
personal
identity and compare the
self with other individuals.
At other times we assume our
social
identity
and compare ourselves with
members of our own or rival
groups (Brewer & Weber,
1994). In
either
case, the result of social
comparison has an important
influence on who we think we
are.
People
sometimes prefer to learn
about people who are
similar to them. At other
times, they prefer to
learn
about people who are a
little better or a little worse.
Comparing yourself with
someone who is a
little
better is called upward
comparison. Comparing
yourself with someone who is
a little worse is
called
downward
comparison. Which
makes people feel better about
them? It depends. Upward
comparison can
lower
people's self-esteem by suggesting that they
are not performing as well
as they might. It can
also
raise
self-esteem by suggesting that improvement is possible
(Testa & Major, 1990).
Conversely,
downward
comparison can raise people's self-esteem by
suggesting that they are
doing very well.
The
impact of either upward or
downward social comparison on a person's self-concept
depends on the
reasonfor
making the comparison (Kruglanski & Mayseless,
1987, 1988). If the goal is to
derive inspiration
that
"I can improve," then upward
comparison has a positive impact on the
self. If people want
reassurance
that
"things could be worse,"
then downward comparison is a better
strategy for retaining a
positive
self-image.
People tend to prefer whichever
type of comparison protects their
self-esteem and gives them
hope
for the future
People
do not always have a choice, however,
about the others who are
available for social comparison.
The
goal of social comparison and self-reflection,
then, is not so much to
attain self-knowledge as to
make
people
feel better about
themselves. They are happier
when they can selectively
remember more positive
than
negative life events. If
tragedy "makes sense," emotions and
stress-related health problems may
be
moderated.
The ultimate threat to self
is death. To avoid debilitating anxiety
over their own
eventual
demise,
people rely on reassuring
"cultural worldviews" such as
patriotism or religion
SELF
DISTINCTIVENESS
Logically,
people can only be aware of
their own attributes by
contrast with other people.
Adults would not
think
of themselves as adult if people were
born mature and were never children.
Men would not find
it
important
to identify themselves as men if there
were no women. To a large degree,
then, the self-concept
consists
of ways in which we are distinctive or
different from other people
(Johnson & Boyd, 1995).
People
of all ages are more likely
to include a characteristic as part of
their self-schema if they
are
surrounded
by other people who do not
share the characteristic {McGuire &
McGuire, 1988).
College
students
of nontraditional age, for
instance, are more likely
than traditional age
students to mention
their
age
when they describe
themselves (Kite, 1992). The
spontaneous self-concept, then, depends
importantly
on
ways in which we are different
from the particular set of
other people with whom we
happen to have
contact.
Readings
Franzoi,
S.L. (2006). Social
Psychology. New
York: McGraw Hill. Chapter
3.
Lord,
C.G. (1997). Social
Psychology. Orlando:
Harcourt Brace and Company. Chapter
5.
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